There's a Story if You're Willing to Listen
Every dent, every ding tells a story. I grew up watching the Boston Red Sox on television, and by the time I was 14 years old, I finally had the opportunity to see them play in Fenway Park for the first time. My friend's dad ran a grocery chain and had tickets from the Coke distributor - my very first game was witnessed two rows back from the visitor's dugout on the third base line. Those seats are now worth some $85+ dollars. Back in 1984, not so much. Every dent, every ding tells a story. I grew up watching the Boston Red Sox on television, and by the time I was 14 years old, I finally had the opportunity to see them play in Fenway Park for the first time. My friend's dad ran a grocery chain and had tickets from the Coke distributor - my very first game was witnessed two rows back from the visitor's dugout on the third base line. Those seats are now worth some $85+ dollars. Back in 1984, not so much.
It was the first time I had seen Fenway and the wall up close. The "Green Monster" has dents in it covering decades of baseball games. With each dent, a story is born. The story of each is lost to time, but each one has a story. There's the September 2, 2001 game at which I sat in the right field bleachers where at the bottom of the 9th inning and 2 out, a perfect game was broken up with a line drive off the wall. To the best of my knowledge, no one ever marked the dent made by Carl Everett's line drive.
There is no telling what each dent means, but those stories are there.
The same is true in any work of human art, any random encounter one may have. A visit to the Museum reveals a world of story. Certainly, there are visitors who go to see Rodin's statues and gaze upon the inherent beauty of the man's work. I, however, wonder what must've been going through the artists' mind and how he controlled his hand in the creation of his work. To know another human's hands has touched upon a piece of stone, of clay, and scultped a work of art. What was the context, what was the motivation that fed through that artist's hands to create such a work?
A glance upon the bumper of any random car. A scrape, a dent, a ding. The car next to you held together with duct tape. There's a story if you're willing to accept it. The man at the convenience store who can't find the addtional change or the sight of the faded tattoo on his arm. There is a story to each of those things.
The scar from a channel of stitches on the body of a person who has undergone surgery. Certainly, there's a story to be told if you're willing to hear it.
Listening is one of the hardest tasks we as humans as asked to do, those who can internalize and appreciate the story behind the marks upon others, understand what it may be like being in the shoes of another.
The world is full of similar examples. Take a look at the car next to you tomorrow morning. Who is driving it? Where are they going? What is the story behind the vanity license plate?
Take a few minutes to observe that which comes from without. There may be great treasure awaiting you.
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Comments
As for the message, right on. Life has so many dominoes, and there are all our actions effect others in some ways - regardless if we know that person.
So yes, everyone has dents and each tells a story. Although some may appear to be small or insignificant, but they may actually be much bigger than they appear ... especially when adding in the dominoes.
Mo, long ago I told you about a post I wanted you to read. It's a 3-part one, so here's the start.
http://afrankangle.wordpress.com/2009/05/07/on-the-dominos-of-a-message/
Meanwhile, great post here!
I will stop buy and read it!
A suggestion for writer's block ... As you know, reading blogs stimulates a wide range of thoughts ... of course so do many every-day encounters.
Just trying to encourage!
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